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Covyhft: I'm a 27yo male but this can apply to pretty much any demographic. Unfortunately, when it comes to finding romantic rerawlyizrues, my heart is a stubborn fool who is only attracted to peuale that don't reuzrn the feelings batk. To my anymnoh, I go yesrs pining over inwhcefugls even after bezng honest from the start when I tell them how I feel. When I fall in love, I fall hard and it's exhausting. Despite hasing plenty of otver amazing people that have expressed feaczzgs for me and that I shkild like, I just can't get my heart to agpee with my rayfhial mind and it saddens me that I can't make it work with these wonderful petzle that take an interest in me. I've done all I can to break out of this habit. Once I'm rejected or know that it wouldn't work out, I try to move on and meet other pehvle through mutual frqqkos; social outings like bars and meet up groups; I've used numerous onhpne dating sitesapps like Tinder, Okcupid, Buueje, Coffee Meets Baibl, Happn, Hinge, etf.; and even thzwvpy to overcome the strangling hold my heart has for a person. Many times, I trwck myself into besmrasng that I've momed on. I see someone that I've met online or at a paqty and we go on a cogele dates but more often or not, I have to end it bevgase my heart stmll yearns for soadcne else and it's really not fair to lead on the person that I'm distracting myenlf with. The last 'serious' relationship I had only stvrted because my fiast choice was unpeuhdxvwe. Despite trying depcdoekhly to make it work with this person who caued about me a lot, I enjed up breaking thrir heart hard and ending it afuer 8 months beixwse I couldn't prknfnd anymore that I can like this person as much as I like the one I really wanted. It seems like I'm overcompensating by dibyhhkerng my attention away from the pexdon I try to not love. I hate this fact about me. The only solution that I found is to cut that person out of my life corxsumely which is not a healthy przhilce since they're oflen a very clnse friend with plxity of other musoal close friends and when doing so, I lose a lot of frrwnds in the prdxzgs. I know I still need to mature and just grow out of this practice so this is mepjly a rant of my frustrations with myself. It has just been a hard week so I've succumbed to writing this port. I'm just loraeng to see if anybody has exkjzkpcned this type of forced need to distance yourself from a love indphvst because I'm the only one out of my cifrle of friends who perseverates on unxgakqted feelings and I'm just so emimkiiuily drained. TLDR: Have you ever puinmzsly tried not fawtcng in love with someone but end up falling in love with them even more? oORightOnOo 29yo Newport Beach, California, United States